Hi! I just wanted everyone to know that Mia Mangos has officially moved and changed its name! Come check out Mia & Pup! See you there!
This week is one full of opportunities for new discoveries in this city. We have the week off from work for the Fiestas Patrias, or the Chilean Independence Days. We are excited to soak in all Chile has to offer during this momentous time in its history. This weekend we will be attending some fondas, which we’ve heard can be pretty wild and exciting! But to ease into the dieciocho, we decided to start with something that has been on our Santiago bucket list for a while now…San Cristobal Hill. At the base of the hill you can choose two paths. One leads to the Virgin Mary statue at the top of the hill and the other leads to an uphill zoo. We decided to check out both. Although I am not a huge fan of zoos, we were happy to see that all of the animals had a playmate. There were very few solitary animals, but it was still a zoo. It is something, in retrospect, we could have skipped.
But let me tell you about that other path. That was full of amazing discoveries and beauty. I could not stop taking photos, and Derek quickly grew impatient-hehe. The greens were so vibrant that it was almost shocking. The bark on the trees boasted designs that begged to be captured. The aroma of wildflowers seemed to linger, making the steep uphill climb so much more pleasant. We could have taken the asphalt option at a more reasonable incline, but we felt adventurous that day. Or maybe, I should correct that…I felt more up to it. Derek is extremely fit. He probably would have ran it if it weren’t for me. I’m more of a yoga girl. I like taking to my mat and practicing my asanas, but I am not so keen on cardio that involves the risk of sure death.
There are some places that really take your breath away. San Cristobal Hill is one of those places. It is serene, and you feel you’ve accomplished something after the trek. (Mind you, it’s only 2.6 kilometers, but still!) The panoramic views of Santiago were unbeatable. We can’t wait to go back after a rain, so the skies are clearer to allow for even more amazing views.
I don’t know about you, but I find churches, temples, chapels, mosques, etc. to be immensely beautiful. There is something peaceful about them, and the architecture is always immaculate. I don’t think one even has to be religious to enjoy the aesthetic that these old buildings have. The smallest details are what stand out to me the most. The same goes for the Virgin Mary statue at the top of the hill. There were signs reading silencio all around her feet, yet it seemed no one even needed the signs. There were, at most, quiet whispers filling the air. It was a place that needed no conversation. A simple look was enough to know exactly what the other was thinking. The signs of gratitude amongst the candles really struck me. This wasn’t just a statue. To some people, this was a holy place. Whether you hold the same beliefs or not, this was a place where you could feel a sense of serenity.
What’s on your bucket list in your city?
I started this series, because I felt inspired by the colors that surround me daily here in Santiago. Although black and white can be considered boring, I couldn’t disagree more. These colors are classic, and they show up everywhere in Santiago. It was hard for me to edit it down to just these photos.
Black: secrets, unknown, comfort, barriers, power, control, intimidation, authority, discipline, self-control, sophistication, elegance, and confidence
White: perfection, purity, new beginnings, reflection, openness, cleanliness, protection, encouragement, peace, calm, comfort, hope, and isolation
I have officially crossed the bridge into my late twenties and celebrated my 26th birthday yesterday. Those 26 years have been full of lessons, tears, belly laughs, and new experiences. This past year, in particular, has been such a whirlwind. Since September of last year we have moved from China to the US to Chile! I figured I would share with you 26 things I have learned by being an expat (expatriate). But first, I wanted to say thank you for all of the kind words on social media over the weekend for my birthday. You really know how to make a girl feel special! 🙂
1. Body language does not always work. I used to think that I could get by with using a lot of body language to get my point across. While it does work most of the time, it definitely is not a substitute for learning the local language!
2. Making mistakes is okay. There is no way to learn a language without making a fool of yourself a few times. I have asked for six prostitutes in China while trying to order some baozi (steamed buns). I’ve also asked for one noodle of fabric instead of a meter. But these always end in laughter, and I never forgot the correct word again.
3. The whole world does not speak English. This can, unfortunately, be a crutch for us native English speakers. Sometimes we just assume that everyone in the world has learned English in school, so they must be fluent. That is not the case, and it is such a reward to learn and use a new language.
4. Immersion is the best way to learn. I love learning new languages, but I get frustrated when it doesn’t come quickly. I really need to just relax. However, I have learned a few things about speeding up the acquisition process. Fully diving in to a language is the best way to learn it–reading books in that language, talking with native speakers, asking people to correct you, listening to music, watching the local news, etc.
5. Humor is totally cultural. I can’t count how many times I have either given or received a blank stare after a joke. The more Derek and I travel, the more I realize that funny really depends on where you are.
6. Travelling doesn’t need to be expensive. Derek and I are full time educators, so we don’t have overflowing bank accounts. However, we’ve still travelled to many places and have never felt like we’ve missed out. We splurge on things that matter, and we save on the things that don’t.
7. Hostels are not scary. Despite what those terribly graphic flicks told us, hostels are not damp, creepy places. We have made some great, lifelong friends by staying in hostels and conversing in the living spaces. Plus, they are the best bet for budget travelling!
8. The world is pretty small. It doesn’t matter if we are on an island in the Phillippines or walking down the streets of Santiago. We always end up having a crazy run-in with someone. Just two months ago, Derek was running in the park and ran into two girls from South Dakota! They were only in town for one more week, so the chances of seeing people from our home state was so slim.
9. People don’t always get it. It is really hard to try to explain to people why we travel. Sometimes people don’t get why we do what we do. Sometimes people aren’t very supportive of it. That happens. It is bound to happen. I just wish I could truly explain the joy and the rewards in a few words, but I haven’t found the perfect ones yet.
10. The people who invented video calling are the best. If it weren’t for Facetime, Skype, and Google Hangouts, I would be a mess. We talk to family at least once a week via video calls. It is so comforting to see the faces of the people we love. It really makes the distance easier.
11. The same for WhatsApp and social media. Say what you will about social media, but I can’t imagine our lives without it. We are able to keep up with what is going on halfway around the world with the people we love most. Also, we don’t have to spend outrageous calling and texting fees, because Brian Action and Jan Koum combined forces to create a free service just for reasons like this.
12. Language isn’t a barrier for friendship. Though it can be difficult to communicate all the time, we have made so many friends that don’t speak English fluently…or at all. It shouldn’t be a reason to miss out on a potentially great friendship. We’ve learned so much from friends around the world. One time I made dumplings with a student of mine in China. My Mandarin is extremely basic, and her English level was beginner, but we made a recipe from start to finish together and then went on a double date after with Derek and her boyfriend.
13. Researching a country’s etiquette is a must. Every place in the world has a different way of doing things. This is not saying that we have to totally change ourselves to visit a place, but we do need to be respectful of customs and cultures. For example, in the US, people almost always rub the Buddha’s head or belly for luck, but to rub the head of anyone (especially a buddha statue) in Thailand is considered an extreme insult. If I hadn’t researched that, I would have offended pretty much all of Chiang Mai. Plus, it just adds to your knowledge base of the world, so bonus!
14. Vegetarian does not mean the same thing everywhere. In Asia, I would ask for my meals without meat. It would come with pork or seafood on it a lot of the time. They didn’t consider these to be meat. If you are vegetarian, definitely find out exactly how to say what you need, so you don’t end up with a bad experience.
15. Americans say thank you a lot. In the US, we use please and thank you for pretty much everything. In some cultures, they thought we were pretty weird. In China, for example, people do not say thank you for common courtesy things like opening a door. However, we still did. That is pretty ingrained in us.
16. You can never judge a person by their government. While a country’s government might be a stark contrast to your opinion, its people are a different story. Each person is completely unique, and we can never be too quick to judge based solely on where they happen to live.
18. Open-mindedness is essential. It is impossible to travel with a closed mind. Well, I suppose it is possible, but I would highly suggest opening it before going anywhere. There have been so many experiences that I would not have taken if I had tunnel vision. A go-for-it attitude is kind of necessary, especially in cultures that bring you the most culture shock.
19. Culture shock doesn’t always hit you right away. In China, culture shock didn’t really hit me until we had been living there for over three months. I think I had rose-colored glasses for a while. Culture shock isn’t always necessarily negative either. Sometimes is smacks you in the face with something amazing.
20. Cooking is a true art form. I have always enjoyed cooking, but I would not say that I am anywhere near being a chef or a foodie. I love learning how to make different local recipes from the countries we visit. Like art, cooking has so much history, culture, and many stories to tell. There’s a reason for each step, and if you skip one, it just won’t taste the same. I love watching people cook traditional dishes, because it makes me imagine their ancestors doing the exact same thing while following the exact same recipe.
21. Some places are great to visit, but not so great to live. This is definitely a personal thing. Each country and culture offers so much, and where feels like home really varies person to person. Every place we’ve visited or lived has offered us amazing experiences that will be cherished for a lifetime. That being said, not all places are meant for us. Some places we want to visit again, but living there isn’t an option.
22. Material things just don’t matter that much. Before travelling to China, I was pretty materialistic. I didn’t think I was, but in retrospect, I’ve discovered that about myself. Derek and I have a storage unit that was jam packed full of items from our life together in the US. We had totes and totes of clothes, home decor, etc. (And, mind you, this was AFTER we downsized!) Those things were the things we had to have. Then we went to China. The best example I can think of is our arrival and departure. Upon arrival, our employers put us in a hotel (for free!). I remember I complained about the bathroom. I thought the place was pretty dingy. Then, after we lived there for 13 months, we returned to the same hotel to help a new coworker settle in to her new life in China. I went in the same bathroom, and I said, “Wow! This bathroom is so nice. I love the sink.” In only 13 months, my mindset did a complete 180! I stopped with the bigger is better, and I now try to have a minimal lifestyle, and we enjoy decorating our house with pieces that hold special significance to us.
23. Staying in touch is hard, but it is also the most important thing. Over time, it becomes harder and harder to keep in touch with friends. I have to remind myself to write an email or send a message. While I am always thinking of my friends, I sometimes forget to tell them. So, to any of my friends reading this, I will be better! I think of you often, and I appreciate you more than you know!
24. Being late is not so bad! I am notorious with my friends for always being late. It is a family thing, and it has always been that way. While I try as hard as I can to be on time for events or meeting with friends, I always end up at least five minutes late. In Abu Dhabi was the first place that this was a normal thing. People kind of had a fluid relationship with time. Oh, we said 3:00? Well, it’s 6:00, and they are just arriving. I really enjoyed this lifestyle. It was more carefree, but I will try to be on time for my punctual friends!! 🙂
25. We really need to cut down our carbon footprints. Travelling to different cities really showed me how much of an impact we make on the planet. In some cities it was difficult to see across the street due to the smog, while in others you could see for miles. It really makes a difference, so we should all try to keep Earth healthy! Check out an easy DIY project here.
26. We really aren’t that different. As cliche as this sounds, it is so true. If we look past the superficial, people are not that different. We all want happiness. We all strive for success. We all smile, cry, laugh, fight, and love. The way in which we do these things may be different, but that is not what matters. I can’t express how much these travels have changed me and my viewpoint on the world. I hope we can all experience a new culture, or at least befriend someone who has a different nationality or native language than our own.
^photo: Mint Afternoon’s Etsy Shop^
What have you learned from travelling? If you haven’t yet, where would you love to go?
Santiago is is a city full of life, culture, the arts, and color. I am so excited about this new blog series. The colors that surround me daily provide so much inspiration to create and to write. So much so that I have to share that inspiration with you through a series focusing on one color per week. What better color to start than my favorite…yellow.
Yellow: knowledge, perception, original thought, inquisitiveness, creativity, hope, happiness, cheerfulness, fun, confidence, optimism, and analysis.
^Delicious yellow hollandaise sauce at The Shamrock Pub’s brunch^
I saw a similar series on another blog recently, but stupid me, I forgot to save the site. The city was Copenhagen, so please, if you have read this blog, share with me the link in the comments!
Read more about the psychology behind the color yellow here.
Transforming a brick wall or piece of concrete into a masterpiece isn’t something just any of us can do. It amazes me every day when Derek and I walk the streets of Santiago (or any large city) and see the amazing pieces of art whose creators, for the most part, remain unknown. To me, these are true artists. They create, not for the glory, but for the sake of creating. Each piece, from the beautiful to the strange, renders a different feeling. A few brighten my day, others leave me scratching my head, and some of the political pieces make me feel that I should become more involved. These are a few of my favorite pieces from around the city of Santiago, Chile.
photo 1: near Universidad Catolica | photo 2: near La Moneda metro | photo 3: near Barrio Lastarria
So what do you think? Is street art your “type”? Do you prefer Bansky or the anonymous? What city boasts your favorite pieces?
The last two Saturdays have been so enjoyable for us. Derek and I have explored Santiago a little more and discovered some new and interesting places from Gato Fest 2 to the center city to a quiet afternoon in the park.
Last Saturday (or should I say, “Cat-urday” hehe) brought us to a place I never thought possible, but any festival that features “Feline Aromatherapy” as a main event is one I must attend. If you know us well, you know that Derek and I have a shared weakness for cats. So when we found a flyer in the Santiago metro for Gato Fest 2, it was a plan set in stone. We expected this to be a small event with a few cats, maybe some raffles, and some information about caring for your feline. What we didn’t expect was an attendance of 1,500+ who all shared the same love for kitties! (Fun Fact: Over 200 cats were adopted that day thanks to Fundacion Adopta in Santiago!)
This past weekend was equally enjoyable, but in a different way. We decided it was finally time to explore a little more of the center city. Our day began at La Moneda Cultural Center. Spontaneously, we decided to go to the below ground museum. I am so glad we did, because it just happened to be the day of the Feria del Gusto (Taste Fair). There were foods from all over Chile. We were able to taste several traditional Mapuche recipes and teas, but the real show stopper was the assortment of produce in the shape of the country.
After this, we refueled at Domino, and continued on to the Museo Historico Nacional (National Museum of History) in Plaza de Armas. This was really amazing for me, as my grandmother is Chilean. Derek and I both learned so much about the history of this amazing country. It was so inexpensive (600 CHP each!) for all of the relics they have on display!
Our last stop on the walk home was a park by Salvador Metro Station. The fountain made for the perfect backdrop to watch the sun set and just talk. All in all, it was a pretty great weekend!
Chiang Mai was full of wonder. Derek and I discussed what really made Chiang Mai special, and this is our guide to our favorite parts of the city:
The Whole Earth Restaurant is our top pick for a date night. It was very well priced, and their menu was quite extensive. Derek and I both found options that perfectly fit both our palettes.
May Kaidee’s Cooking Class is a must if you are interested in bringing back some knowledge of the recipes. This particular cooking class is vegetarian, but there are so many more options available.
The street food is absolutely divine, so you don’t need to spend much to really please your taste buds here. I suggest the spicy green papaya salads and the mango lassi smoothies.
We also loved the Sunday Walking Markets (pictured above). You can find these in the center of Chiang Mai’s Old City.
Tuk Tuks & bicycles are the best way to get around this city. We really preferred the bicycles, because we could stop anytime we wanted and just explore. If you want to get somewhere quickly (and cheaply) then the Tuk Tuks were the best bet! Don’t let them fool you with the price. Most are honest, but the rides shouldn’t be more than 60-100 Thai Baht for a ride within the city.
Take a kayaking trip to see some wildlife and experience the quieter side of Thailand. We went with Chiang Mai Kayaking, and it was definitely worth it. Our group was extremely intimate with only three members plus our two guides. We saw various species of rare birds, a few snakes (eek!), and kayaked past the banana fields. Do not forget your sunscreen for this one! I never get sunburns, but my legs were extremely red after this!
The Peak Spa was a much-need restoration session for us both. This was a definite luxury. The whole experience started with herbal tea and hot towels. We were able to choose our own aromatherapy oils for our experience. They have private rooms or you may opt for a couple’s room. We chose different types of massages but were able to be in the same room. It was an amazing experience for a nice price tag of $60! Yes, you read that right!
Lastly, here are some Dos and Don’ts for your trip:
Don’t touch people on the head. This includes the Buddha statues. It is considered an extreme act of disrespect.
Don’t disrespect the Thai Royal family! This is a huge one, because the Thai people take this very seriously. Some people have even been arrested or fined for insulting them.
Don’t support the abuse of animals! I would, personally, avoid anything in the Mae Rim Valley, because I only heard negative things about it from the Thai people. Try to find places that enrich the animals’ lives. I suggest the Elephant Nature Park! There’s no riding and no shows, so they are allowed to thrive naturally.
Do smile often! Thai people are extremely friendly, so be sure to return the kindness.
Do get a fish foot massage! This was so cool. The little guys get a meal, and you get the smoothest feet on earth. Win-win!
Have you been to Thailand? What did you enjoy most? Planning on visiting soon? Did I miss something? Let me know in the comments!
Imagine a place where elephants with disabilities weren’t discarded as “damaged goods”. Visualize elephants who can finally relax and heal after years of hard work and abuse. Picture these said elephants forming new family groups and flourishing in a land that is truly their own. This place exists, and I feel lucky enough to have experienced it first hand with Derek this past year.
We weren’t planning on visiting Thailand, but things changed, and we found ourselves on a plane to the northern city of Chiang Mai. After some serious travel blog research on my part and Reddit surfing on Derek’s, we found some must see places that I will be sharing with you in the next few posts. Since we both have eles as our favorite animal, the first must was Elephant Nature Park. I spoke briefly about this magical place in my first blog post, but one this wonderful requires more.
Lek, the founder of ENP, has over 30 elephants on her grounds. She rescued these elephants from sad, prior lives of work varying from logging to street begging to circus acts. Some of the elephants have extreme handicaps, but their newfound happiness was visible. There was no riding, no shows, no chains, no abuse and no work, so these elephants could just be elephants again. They’ve created small herds and have gone back to some of their natural ways. There were two babies on the grounds when Derek and I visited (Nawaan, boy, 7 months & Dok Noi, girl, 4 months). It was incredible. We were able to feed, bathe, and play with the elephants who were social. Those that preferred a more natural (and wild) life did not associate with the humans, and Lek hopes to put these animals back into the wild when she buys some secure jungle land! 🙂 All in all…incredible.